- Misuse of ultimate truth or relative truth: The Buddha speaks of ultimate and relative truth. Diving into relative truth and ignoring absolute truth or vice versa comes at a great expense. We can monitor ourselves and watch for signs that we need to reassess how we are holding onto these two types of truth. Here are a few signs:
- Thinking that we don’t need to worry about living a compassionate life, because there is no such thing as pain or suffering;
- Thinking that what we do doesn’t matter or that we are powerless against an issue as enormous as systemic racism;
- Living with the idea that we’re separate from each other, rather than living as though we are all waves of the same ocean.
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For most of us, our first response probably will be that we aren’t doing any of these things. But spiritual bypassing isn’t always a conscious choice. We may automatically do it in discomfort, because escape is a natural human response to pain. We don’t have to label our go-to responses as right or wrong. Instead, we can learn to be aware of them. Let’s challenge ourselves to take an honest inventory of our intentions, our beliefs in ultimate and relative truth, and how that plays out in our off-the-cushion lives. Our innate sense of self-preservation may tell us to run the other way. Our beginning work right now is to sit with the discomfort of uncovering our coping mechanisms and increasing our awareness of spiritual bypassing.
- Misuse of ultimate truth or relative truth: The Buddha speaks of ultimate and relative truth. Diving into relative truth and ignoring absolute truth or vice versa comes at a great expense. We can monitor ourselves and watch for signs that we need to reassess how we are holding onto these two types of truth. Here are a few signs:
- Thinking that we don’t need to worry about living a compassionate life, because there is no such thing as pain or suffering;
- Thinking that what we do doesn’t matter or that we are powerless against an issue as enormous as systemic racism;
- Living with the idea that we’re separate from each other, rather than living as though we are all waves of the same ocean.
Please add more ideas in the comments!
For most of us, our first response probably will be that we aren’t doing any of these things. But spiritual bypassing isn’t always a conscious choice. We may automatically do it in discomfort, because escape is a natural human response to pain. We don’t have to label our go-to responses as right or wrong. Instead, we can learn to be aware of them. Let’s challenge ourselves to take an honest inventory of our intentions, our beliefs in ultimate and relative truth, and how that plays out in our off-the-cushion lives. Our innate sense of self-preservation may tell us to run the other way. Our beginning work right now is to sit with the discomfort of uncovering our coping mechanisms and increasing our awareness of spiritual bypassing.
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